Now i’m going to do one of my favourite no holes barred kind of posts were I just let rip, so excuse the language and tone lol.
When you are over 50 would you be happy to never have sex or even an intimate cuddle with someone you find attractive- I sure as hell hope i’m still at it or I will be a miserable old bugger thats for sure.
So why should any other pensioner or over 50 never have that again.
I see myself as the seniors dating guru these days.
Since I have seen so many senior dating sites around and just how many people use them I have been urging every over 50 single I know to give them a try.
Why not give them a try rather than being lonely this winter. Find yourself a companion or a lover.
Widdows are entitled to love again too you know.
Here is my handy dandy guide for online dating to help you along they way.
Be open and honest. If someone is asking you for something your not willing to give or not interested in just tell them. Don’t waste your time or theirs.
Take real photos. No catfish photos needed when your a senior citizen you are going to have lumps and bumps, wrinkles and rolls. Its all part and parcel of the way of live. Super model seniors are few and far between and that is not realistic.
Be safe- Always meet in an open public place and make sure someone knows where you are. Not matter how old you are, safety is key.
Here is also a quirky little D.A.T.I.N.G quote I made.
D- Don’t tell a stranger where you live, although most people will be on the site for the same reasons you can never believe 100% of people are.
A- Always have people know where you are and who you are meeting with. Please don’t rest on your laurels that it will never happen to you because sadly no one is immune from chance takers and creeps.
T- Time will tell if there is a spark there ( ladies you tuppence will twitch if you feel something, if you get my drift lol) Take its slow your not teenagers anymore who need to rush into bed or moving in with a new love interest.
I- Indicate what you want from the date or meet up- some people are very clear on the sites they just want sex.
N- Never put your self at risk ( please revert back to D.A.T.I)
G- Go for it – what have you got to lose tomorrow is promised for no one unfortunately. Grab the bull by the horns and ride it baby.
If your a senior reading this and you have no one to help and guide you. I am always happy to help just pop me and email.
** This is a collaboration post but all views are honest and my own**