Lockdown Local Love

I’ve been in a solid relationship for the last 13 years but I have many friends who haven’t met the right person yet.

I don’t know what it is but they always choose people that are out for the wrong thing or end up with someone for connivence that just doesn’t work.

Online Dates for My Mates

My sister in law is currently in the market for a new man after being single for nearly 10 years!

She had her son alone and has been single ever since as she doesn’t want to let anyone into there little bubble. I’ve been working hard on convincing her that online dating is the way to go for her and hear is why.

  • She can hide behind a computer screen to gain confidence.
  • She can be brutal with what she wants and sieve out all the rift raff.
  • She can meet Wiltshire Singles in the area she is looking to relocate.
  • She can save money on fuel travelling to meet potential dates that won’t equate to anything. 
  • A priceless saving she will make is getting to know someone over a long period of time before her son even needs to know his mum is dating.
  • She will never need to consider relocating for love if she just look for people worth her time in the Wiltshire dating scene. 
  • Meals and drinks out can always be awkward if you have been single for many years and used to just paying for yourself. Your instinct is to offer to pay which can be costly. Online have some virtual video dates where you just cook for yourself at home. Something which you will be doing anyway right? So just share it on camera with a companion.
  • Another invaluable saving is the gift of compatibility. You can really be open and honest about what you require and what you want out of life and love. If who your talking to doesn’t tick the box. Move on.

Here are Three practical online dating tips for women:

1. Have realistic expectations.
As much as singles wish there were a magical algorithm-based shortcut to love, the truth is you have to do some legwork to get a date. Online dating makes it easier to find potential love interests, but no website or app can gift wrap a happily-ever-after for you. 

2. Add more than one photo.
On a dating site, a selfie speaks a thousand words. You don’t want yours to say, “I use Snapchat too much” or “I took this photo in my car and put zero effort into my profile.” You should have at least one non-blurry, unfiltered photo of yourself on your dating profile, but more is always better because it shows you’re a real person with many facets to your personality. Your photos are often your first impression while online dating, so make the most of it and showcase what makes you who you are.

3. Don’t rush but don’t take forever.
Every woman has her own pace when it comes to dating. Some people are anxious to skip the small talk and start planning a date right away while others are content to spend months trading messages before even mentioning meeting in person. You should find the middle ground between these extremes so you don’t wind up on a date with someone you haven’t vetted at all and don’t waste your time talking to someone who has no intention of ever meeting you. 

TTFN

T XX