When’s the right time?
Before I became a mum people would always say there is never a right time to start a family. I always shrugged that off and thought of course there has to Be a right time if the perpetration is right and you need to get things in order. WRONG. I have learned this the hard way. After needing years of fertility treatment I now wish I would of started trying for a family years before we did. Here’s why
Under lying issues
You May think you need to time trying for a family down to the last details but unfortunately for me when I was ready my body wasn’t which ment my son didn’t come until 5 years after starting to try for him.
If you are happy in your relationship and wants a child, go for it!
Tomorrow might never come
I have witnessed first hand from a family friend that tomorrow just may never come. Live each day as if it’s your last. If your loved ones get take too soon your chance to create a family with them may be taken away too.
All you need is love
Obviously this is slightly untrue but my point here is you don’t have to be rich or have a massive savings pot to have a child. If this was the case hardly anyone would reproduce and the world would be a miserable childless place.
When your a parent you make adaptations to your lifestyle and spend your money in a different way.
Way back when
some people think there houses are not big enough to have a child or make an addition to the family. What do you think they did years ago when there was 10 children to a family with a 2 or 3 bedrooms house.
You adapt. Bunk beds and handy storage soloutions are key. If my grandma could do it so could we.
Ignore the haters
If like me you have people telling you not yet or your too young and they are trying to talk you out of it. Ignore them. Who are they to tell you how to live your life.
As they say we are not here for a long time we are here for a good time.
Moral of the Story
The moral of the story here is that I fell a victim to all of these theory’s and it ment that I didn’t become a mother until 5 years after the intended time when we started trying due to fertility issues
Take my advice live each day as if it where your last and do what you want to do because at the end of the day-
LOVE AND HAPPINESS CONQUERS ALL.
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