New Year New Relationships

As the clock strikes 12 on midnight will you be standing alone or with a loved one?

Everyone deserves to be loved whether your young, old, rich, poor, male or female. I truly believe there is someone out there for everyone.

So if you would rather not stand alone in 2019 then you are the one to make the change happen.

My advice to all single people is date online, it has so many benefits. You can get to know so much about someone before you even have to meet them. Cut out the middle man with all the rubbish dates, catfish pictures and men or women that are only after one thing.

If you want to really make it in the dating online world put plenty of effort into your profile tell people as much as you want them to know but don’t only tell them things they want to hear.

If you do this you you are likely to attract the wrong type of attention and it could all end in tears.

Also make sure you profile picture is on point- true to likeness, no filters and one from recent time not many moons ago. Be realistic.

There are some great sites around to use just lately I have found and isle of man dating  are great for people in those areas.

Here is my handy dandy guide for online dating to help you along they way.


Be open and honest. If someone is asking you for something your not willing to give or not interested in just tell them. Don’t waste your time or theirs.


Take real photos. No catfish photos needed when your a senior citizen you are going to have lumps and bumps, wrinkles and rolls. Its all part and parcel of the way of live. Super model seniors are few and far between and that is not realistic.


Be safe- Always meet in an open public place and make sure someone knows where you are. Not matter how old you are, safety is key.

Here is also a quirky little D.A.T.I.N.G quote I made.

D- Don’t tell a stranger where you live, although most people will be on the site for the same reasons you can never believe 100% of people are.

A- Always have people know where you are and who you are meeting with. Please don’t rest on your laurels that it will never happen to you because sadly no one is immune from chance takers and creeps.

T- Time will tell if there is a spark there ( ladies you tuppence will twitch if you feel something, if you get my drift lol) Take its slow your not teenagers anymore who need to rush into bed or moving in with a new love interest.

I- Indicate what you want from the date or meet up- some people are very clear on the sites they just want sex.

N- Never put your self at risk ( please revert back to D.A.T.I)

G- Go for it – what have you got to lose tomorrow is promised for no one unfortunately. Grab the bull by the horns and ride it baby.